.NET Remoting - HOW DO I GET A REFERENCE (ON THE SERVER SIDE)?

Hello All - A question from a Remoting newbie... I am attempting to perform .NET remoting by creating 1 application which can register as a client or a server. I am able to access the desired object from the client doing this. I am using a singleton object along with a TCP channel, and am attempting to call methods from the server side in order to set the values to be viewed from the client side. Question 1 - Can this be done? (I starting to think Remoting objects are somewhat useless since I cannot seem to be able to get a reference, thus I can only use hard-coded objects with no references) Question 2 - Can someone provide a sample of how to communicate, from the server side, with a remoting object? My email address is [email protected]